{"id":2315,"date":"2016-03-08T12:05:03","date_gmt":"2016-03-08T05:05:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tannamtu.id.vn\/?p=2315"},"modified":"2016-03-08T12:05:03","modified_gmt":"2016-03-08T05:05:03","slug":"8-thoi-quen-tot-giup-ban-luon-duoc-yeu-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tannamtu.net\/?p=2315","title":{"rendered":"8 th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau m\u1ebfn"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng nghe nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e2u: \u201cB\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n.\u201d<\/h2>\n

H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1u th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u1edbn lao, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i t\u00ean n\u1ed5i tr\u1ed9i hay \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 y\u00eau m\u1ebfn v\u00e0 n\u1ec3 tr\u1ecdng t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 l\u1ed1i c\u01b0 x\u1eed t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ecf g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u1edbn l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n c\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen<\/a> t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n

1. \u0110\u00fang gi\u1edd<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc b\u1ea5t di b\u1ea5t d\u1ecbch. Y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 v\u1ec1 th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u. H\u00e3y ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i duy nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng th\u1eddi gian cho n\u00f3. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n h\u00ean xui may r\u1ee7i n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra, h\u00e3y g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n v\u00e0 nh\u1eafn tin cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n. Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n
\"th\u00f3i<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
\u0110\u00fang gi\u1edd l\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

2. B\u1eaft chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nguy hi\u1ec3m. Th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n d\u1ea1n d\u0129 v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i quan s\u00e1t, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn, ch\u1ecdn l\u1ecdc v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u00f4ng tin c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee7 tin c\u1eady, bi\u1ebft quan t\u00e2m, ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1edfi m\u1edf t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng. T\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay \u0111i du l\u1ecbch l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7y t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gi\u00e0u s\u1ef1 phong ph\u00fa? B\u1edfi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1edfi s\u1ef1 m\u1ecdi kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1eaft chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1.<\/p>\n

3. L\u00e0m \u01a1n, c\u1ea3m \u01a1n, xin ch\u00e0o, xin l\u1ed7i, t\u1ea1m bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0\u2026 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u00f4m<\/p>\n

Trong ch\u00fang ta \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u c\u0169ng t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 hay h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c t\u1eeb \u201cl\u00e0m \u01a1n, c\u1ea3m \u01a1n, xin l\u1ed7i, t\u1ea1m bi\u1ec7t\u2026\u201d nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng sau m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u00e1n ch\u00e2n t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7y c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u201cc\u00e1i \u00f4m\u201d n\u00e0o c\u0169ng d\u00e0nh cho m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i \u00f4m l\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p v\u1eeba c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t th\u1eed th\u00e1ch l\u1edbn\u2026<\/p>\n

4. K\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n, l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc<\/p>\n

C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i ch\u00fang ta, \u0111\u00f4i khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb t\u00ean b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd qu\u00ean c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n, cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5y \u0111\u1eb7c s\u1eafc. L\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7y hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1edbi c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n khi h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i, l\u00e0m t\u0103ng s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eeba m\u1edbi c\u00f2n xa l\u1ea1 nhau tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n, l\u1eafng nghe m\u00e0 c\u00f2n h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 l\u00ed do g\u00ec l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau m\u1ebfn. M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n vui s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tinh th\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd \u0111ang trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng.<\/p>\n

5. Kh\u00f4ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c<\/p>\n

Thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb di \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00f4ng minh th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t \u0111ang chia c\u1eaft b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Kh\u00f4ng ai th\u00edch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ho\u1eb7c g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ch\u0103m ch\u0103m quan s\u00e1t c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u1eb1ng thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb di \u0111\u1ed9ng. \u0110\u1eebng s\u1ed1ng v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u00edt th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb di \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00f4ng minh b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1edf h\u1eefu.<\/p>\n

6. M\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/p>\n

M\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, trong giao ti\u1ebfp ho\u1eb7c m\u1ecdi ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n trong l\u00e2u d\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

7. Chia s\u1ebb th\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c<\/p>\n

Chia s\u1ebb th\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. \u0110\u1eebng ngh\u0129 chuy\u1ec7n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i l\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 xung quanh m\u00ecnh ra sao. C\u00f3 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c r\u1ed9ng, b\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n h\u01a1n, m\u1eb7c kh\u00e1c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nhi\u1ec1u g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn l\u00fd th\u00fa.<\/p>\n

8. \u1ee6ng h\u1ed9 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201c\u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t\u201d, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, ngo\u00e0i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 y\u00eau m\u1ebfn c\u00f2n n\u1eafm gi\u1eef quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. \u201cQuy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn \u0111a chi\u1ec1u, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tin c\u1ea9n, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch v\u00e0 l\u00e0m ch\u1ed7 d\u1ef1a cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh. Nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng nghe nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e2u: \u201cB\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n.\u201d H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1u th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u1edbn lao, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i t\u00ean n\u1ed5i tr\u1ed9i hay \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":31,"featured_media":2316,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[117],"tags":[26,144,23,87,95,105,147,32,42,145,93,20,92,108,106,86,53,55,94,146,31,104,100,51,24,8,21,36,98],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/tannamtu.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/8-thoi-quen-tot-giup-ban-luon-duoc-yeu-men_20150913083918272.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2315"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/31"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2315"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2315\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2317,"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2315\/revisions\/2317"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2316"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2315"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2315"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2315"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}